YOUR CHARACTER DEFINES
WHO YOU ARE
BY THE ACTIONS YOU MAKE
I am here to share a small real story in which you will let you know ,what is real beauty? told by BR.shafi a motivational public speaker.
There is one flight which is ready to departure,all passengers in the flight are ready, at last a beautiful girl is entering the flight who was the last passenger. She is searching for her seat around and she found an empty seat which is her seat and going near to her seat to sit but beside her seat she observed a man who didn't have two hands and she started feeling irritated, disgusted, uncomfortable to sit beside him. Next minute she called the airhostess and the airhostess asked her,"what happened madam, is there any problem?",the girl replied,I can't sit here can u arrange another seat for me. Then the airhostess asked,can I know the reason madam,She again replied that ,the man didn't have his 2 hands I can't sit and travel beside him.
All other passengers who are watching and listening became shocked, why the girl was behaving in this way. Then the airhostess said, Ok madam I will try to arrange another seat and let u know. After 2 min the airhostess came and said to the girl that ,sorry madam there is no seat available but we can't discomfort our passenger so once again I will try talking with our captain.
After talking with the captain the airhostess came and said to the girl that,yes madam as per our airline rules,till now no passenger in economy class is shifted to business class, it is against to our rules,but as per our responsibility we shouldn't make our passenger feel uncomfortable ,we are going beyond the rules and arranged a economy seat in business class. The girl felt happy and said thank you very much and taken her luggage to go. The next minute the airhostess called the man who didn't have two hands and said excuse me sir for you we arranged a seat in business class, sitting beside a girl with wrong thoughts ,wrong perceptions, bad expressions may feel you bad, uncomfortable , please come sir seat is ready for you.
All the remaining passengers who are watching started clapping and applause for the words of airhostess. The girl watching all this felt very bad and shame of her and fall down on her seat. Now the man stand up and started talking that, when the girl said that ,"I am so irritated to sit beside him", at that second I felt so sad,bad that for these indians ,I struggled a lot in border as an indian army and lost my two hands,I felt very very sad at that moment. But by the response of airhostess and remaining passengers I felt very proud and happy to loose my hands for indians.
The difference between the man,airhostess and the girl was character, attitude towards others. So the real beauty is the character, thinking ,your attitude towards others. Only 2 points will show our character towards others they are
1: care ; 2: don't care
- Here the man cared about all indians and loose his hands for them ,the attitude towards indians make the people respecting towards him, loving him,caring him.
- But the girl atleast didn't give respect and didn't cared about the gentleman and the attitude towards him make her insulted and shamed of her.
The real beauty is not a face,colour, caste,religion,it is all about our attitude towards others,caring towards others,helping towards others, every person is going to end life one day,till that day our money,our caste,our property will not count, all these will end with us ,but our love,respect,caring, attitude, character towards others will come to count,till end of our life how many people are respecting us, willing to travel with us,helping us and how many people are going to remember us and after our death, how many people are going to spread the value and life of us to the world is important.
CHARACTER AND ATTITUDE PLAYS A KEY ROLE IN EVERYONE LIFE AND GIVES A REAL BEAUTY TO EVERYONE.